A few weeks before delivery, the baby’s head settles lower in the pelvis, and so the uterus or womb seems to slip downwards and forwards and the shape of the abdomen changes. This may cause a feeling of pressure in the lower abdomen. You may want to pass urine more often. There may also be a little swelling of the …
Read More »Household Chores Made Fun
One of the best ways to take the stress out of housework is to involve children in it. Chores are a good way to teach children to be responsible and to clean up after they’ve done with playing. Children yearn to be a part of the adult world – they are constantly playing at going to office, dressing up like …
Read More »Hook Worm Infection
Largely common in tropical climes, hook worm infection is caused by parasites called Ancylostoma Duodenale and Necator Americanus. Hookworms live in the small intestine of an infected person and are excreted in the faeces. The worms can find their way into your body by penetrating the skin, usually through the feet if you are walking bare feet on infected soil …
Read More »Honour Your Promises To Your Child
In today’s competitive, fast-paced world it often happens that you have to juggle a demanding career with a family which demands equal attention. It commonly happens that parents come home late, exhausted from work only to find their child waiting patiently for them to take him out for dinner or a movie. It is then that the painful reality dawns …
Read More »Home-bound Dads Seek Greater Legitimacy
“Stay-at-home fathers aggressively pursue recognition by and acceptance from mainstream institutions…,” said study authors Gokcen Coskuner-Balli and Craig J. Thompson, from the Chapman and Wisconsin Universities, respectively. “Accordingly, they vigilantly watch for mass media representations and advertisements that positively acknowledge their collective identity,” they add, reports the Journal of Consumer Research. Men who forgo the traditional breadwinner role to stay …
Read More »Holding Objects
Newborn babies have a grasp reflex. As soon as anything is put into the palm say your finger, the baby takes a firm grip of it. Gradually, at around three to four months, the baby can hold objects. He will put out his hand and try to hold the object. His coordination is poor initially, but soon he learns to …
Read More »Hold Encounters in Relaxed Places
Places conducive to relaxation offer better changes for caring relationships to develop, especially if children feel threatened. When you are about to tell a child something difficult, don’t do it in the middle of the playground, the middle of the street, the middle of a classroom, or the middle of a family. If it’s something that’s personal and perhaps difficult, …
Read More »Help Relieve Stress with Something Physical
When children are being put into an unavoidable stress situation, for example, being given a test, meeting new people, or facing a challenge, some physical outlets to drain off excess anxiety are helpful. These might include something to touch, hold, squeeze, stroke, rub, bend- something that allows them to release anxiety through physical activity. With Sandy, who had to be …
Read More »Help Ground Frightened Children with Facts
When children are caught up in strong feelings or imminent fears, they need to be connected with positive potentials in the future. Such a connection is best made when you focus on simple concerts facts about the near future. When I was the person who handled emergency service at the clinic on Fridays and encountered someone making suicidal statements either …
Read More »Help Children Get Emotional Distance
When children are likely to be overwhelmed by strong feelings, it is often useful to find ways to help children find a bit of emotional distance from the events. Here are four ways I have found helpful: First, make up a story showing how the situation could be worse and, when possible, do it in a way that might be …
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