Amoebiasis refers to harbouring the parasite Entamoeba histolytica with or without clinical manifestations. It is a common infection of the human gastro-intestinal tract and is quite common in India and other developing countries. Sometimes, it is also present outside the intestines and may affect the liver (liver abscess), lungs, brain, spleen and skin. Transmission Most individuals infected with Entamoeba Histolytica …
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Shoma is a computer professional and is doing very well in her career. She spends a lot of time in the office crouched in front of her terminal. Recently, she has developed lower backache that is bothering her a lot. Backache is a common problem during pregnancy. It is caused by certain pregnancy hormones which soften the ligaments supporting the …
Read More »Be Aware of Children Subtle Message
In encounters with children, it is wise to be on the alert to catch the signals of interest, resistance, or fear they send out. In the situation with Rita when I had been sensitive to her needs, I noticed the subtle message that accompanied her crying. When her brother and sister were standing outside the door of her room, she …
Read More »Being Nonthreatening
Emotionally, children are easily threatened by anyone bigger, older, or more confident than they are. Not yet possessing the well-developed defenses adults usually have, children’s sense of self is still fragile, vulnerable, and easily knocked down. For example, children often don’t understand the significant difference chronological age can make in their performance. Younger children may feel stupid because their older …
Read More »Be Willing to Reach Out Physically
Whenever children feel threatened, instead of making them come to you, meet them at their safe place, and together from there move to new places. Remember, a path is usually neutral territory. Walking to a new place together provides a gentle way of being together, allowing to grow accustomed to each other. When I was about to begin tutoring a …
Read More »Be Available to Children
When I agree to be available to a child, I try to remember to present myself in such a way that the child knows I choose to be available specifically to him or her for this period of time. For me, when one of my daughters comes to be with me, this may mean hanging up the telephone, turning off …
Read More »Be Ready to Have Your Concern Tested
Often the test of your concern comes in the form of behavior children know would be socially unacceptable. So be ready for it, except it, and recognize it as a situation with growth potential when it happens. It is important for children to know you would not reject them for their words or actions, and that your primary concern is …
Read More »Be Careful with Your Negative Feelings
The main point to remember here is that children in general, low self-esteemers in particular, tend to think they are the cause of their parents’ or teachers’ negative feelings. So, if you are angry or fearful because of something that happened outside the relationship with this child, keep those feelings out of this relationship. If your negative feelings are very …
Read More »बच्चों को दें व्यवहारिक ज्ञान
अक्सर पेरैंट्स का सारा ध्यान बच्चों के पढाई में अव्वल आने पर ही केन्द्रित रहता है। यही वजह है कि बच्चे पढाई में तो अच्छे अंक ले लेते हैं लेकिन व्यवहारिक ज्ञान में पीछे रह जाते हैं। व्यवहारिक ज्ञान यानी परिस्थिति को सही तरीके से और स्मार्टली डीलर करने की कला। यह हर माता-पिता का कर्त्तव्य है कि वे बच्चों को …
Read More »Baby Teething Trouble
Common signs of teething are drooling, gnawing, biting, and general fussiness and irritability. Your child may feel slightly feverish at times, but no further serious illness should be attributed to teething. He needs more cuddling because of his discomfort, he may wake up more often at night and may want to sleep next to you. All this is part of …
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